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Tarekpukat- characteristics of a good friend is someone who has diligently nature, wara ', to be honest, and easy to understand the problem.
While not a good friend is someone who has the nature lazy, unemployed, talkative, disruptive and fond of slander.
Nasr bin Muhammad bin Ibrahim As-Samarqandi At-Tuzy Al-Balkhy a jurist and a mystic who ever dreamed of meeting with the Holy Prophet were distinguished by the name of Abu Layth, providing advice very valuable on the subject of friendship, he said: "Whoever sits with eight groups, Allah will exaggerate them eight cases. That is:
1. Sitting down with the rich, overbid love and love to the world.
2. Sitting with indigent people, will arise gratitude and pleasure of the division of Allah.
3. Sitting with the sultan, hearts grow hard and arrogant.
4. Sitting with women, God will add to him ignorance and lust.
5. Sitting with small children, will increase jest (joke).
6. Sitting down with the wicked, increasingly bold sinner and procrastinate repentance.
7. Sitting with the righteous, will grow fond of doing obedience.
8. Sitting with scholars, will increase science and charity.
Thus the eight cases mentioned by Abu Layth, then it is appropriate for people of understanding to be more careful in the mix, in order to survive the world and the hereafter.
Reference: Abdurrahman bin Husein Umar Ba'lawi, Bughyah al-Mustarsyidin, pages. 5
While not a good friend is someone who has the nature lazy, unemployed, talkative, disruptive and fond of slander.
Nasr bin Muhammad bin Ibrahim As-Samarqandi At-Tuzy Al-Balkhy a jurist and a mystic who ever dreamed of meeting with the Holy Prophet were distinguished by the name of Abu Layth, providing advice very valuable on the subject of friendship, he said: "Whoever sits with eight groups, Allah will exaggerate them eight cases. That is:
1. Sitting down with the rich, overbid love and love to the world.
2. Sitting with indigent people, will arise gratitude and pleasure of the division of Allah.
3. Sitting with the sultan, hearts grow hard and arrogant.
4. Sitting with women, God will add to him ignorance and lust.
5. Sitting with small children, will increase jest (joke).
6. Sitting down with the wicked, increasingly bold sinner and procrastinate repentance.
7. Sitting with the righteous, will grow fond of doing obedience.
8. Sitting with scholars, will increase science and charity.
Thus the eight cases mentioned by Abu Layth, then it is appropriate for people of understanding to be more careful in the mix, in order to survive the world and the hereafter.
Reference: Abdurrahman bin Husein Umar Ba'lawi, Bughyah al-Mustarsyidin, pages. 5
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