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An Unexpected Visit

Tarekpukat - A strange thing happened to me yesterday (I love it when I get to start a post that way). I was just finishing up my chores and getting the kids to bed when the doorbell rang. It was an elderly lady I see sometimes going past my house or shopping nearby with her husband. She asked if she could have a drink of water. I invited her in, gave her some water and she decided to sit for a while.

She asked me how many children I had, how many were girls (I think she only has sons), how my parents were and whose running machine was in our living room. If anyone else had walked into my home and asked so many questions by now, I might be a bit worried about what they were up to. But I like nosy old ladies who ask lots of questions, and it is a different generation, they don't see the harm in their questions. Or maybe they have become disinhibited enough to ask the questions the rest of us think about but know better than to ask.

I asked if she would like some dinner. She said that she had made diner and just needed the flour for the chapatt's which her husband was picking up down the road. Then she told me she knew my dad and my grandmother. Her husband had worked at the Ford motor factory with my dad and they used to live nearby my parents and grandmother many years ago. I might have thought she was a bit nutsy, or mistaking me for someone else, but she named each of them in turn.

Then she eased herself up and said she needed to be off. She asked me to tell her husband she had gone home if he stopped by to pick her up and headed out of the door.

It was a slightly surreal encounter, it made me think though about all of the people my grandmother knew. She was such a sociable lady, everybody called her Aunty and I remember a constant stream of visitors to see her when we were children. She lived with me when I was a newlywed and we were never short of guests who would come by and sit to hear her stories, or tell theirs when they needed a sympathetic ear. Better still was when we got to witness one of her occasional and wonderfully acerbic, truth-telling, scolding's when she thought someone needed to be taken down a peg or two.

When she died, we had people coming to pay respect for weeks, friends, family and then people who we didn't know but who grand had met over the 40 or so years she lived here. It's nice when every now and again someone else pop's up who knows her. Seems like a person's welcoming nature and kind words can live long after the person themselves.

Tarekpukat - Said some scholars that even though the earth and the sky were created by Allah SWT on Sunday, then the wisdom for people who want to build a house or other building to be able to build on that day.

Then Allah created the Sun and the moon on Monday where the nature of both of them went eastward to the west, so for those who want to travel it would be nice to pray on Monday.

Then Allah created all the animals on the land and on the sea on Tuesday and then Allah allowed to slaughter them (shed blood), the wisdom of people who planned to donate their blood or make a mark then the best was done on Tuesday.

On Wednesday, God created all rivers and seas and allowed them to enjoy them by drinking them, then for those who want to take medicine to get them on Wednesday.

Exactly on Thursday, God created heaven and hell and made heaven a place of necessity for humans and made hell release for him, so that for someone who wants to be fulfilled from someone else to be able to request it on Thursday

Finally, Allah created Prophet Adam AS and his partner Sitti Hawa on Friday and married her on that day, so that those who want to get married should do it on Friday.

Wallahua'lam

Reference: Kitabussaba'ti fi mawa'izil bariyyati Page 39-40

source: lbm.mudimesra.com

Tarekpukat - Charity is a precious glory, because charity can remove sin as the water that can extinguish the fire, by giving charity we will receive the shade of Him in the hereafter, giving charity to the wealth we have, Allah will multiply the reward of the people the charity and many other virtues.

About this there is a hadith from Ibnu abbas RA which tells of a woman from Israel who had a wandering husband, and her husband had a mother who loved her at first, but eventually her father-in-law hated her and fabricated a divorce letter given to her son-in-law and the woman also has two children from her husband whom he loves.

Then the woman and her children returned to their families, and at that time they had a king who hated to feed the poor, on the way home the woman met a poor person who asked her for a little help eating bread, then the woman asked to the poor, "do you know that the king forbids feeding the poor?" The man replied, "I know, but I will perish if you don't give me a little food" and finally the woman feeds him, after the woman told her not to tell anyone. So the poor man left and suddenly met the royal guard, the guard asked him "where did you get the two loaves?"

the poor laughed "from a woman", then the guard looked for the woman and met her.

Then the guard asked "is it true that you gave these two loaves

the woman replied "yes"

the guard continued the question, "do you not know that the king forbade it?" the woman replied "I know"

guard; why did you give it?

woman; because I'm sorry.

then the guard brought the woman to the king, and he asked him,

king: "do you not know that I forbid it?

woman: I know

king: why did you give it?

woman: because I feel sorry and I hope no one knows.

then king too told the executioner to cut both his hands on the two breads he had given and the execution went smoothly.

then suddenly the child slipped and fell into the river, her mother panicked so she told the other child to help his brother drowning, in the end the two were lost in the river, his mother could not do anything because he did not have a hand. So the woman stayed alone with a wound above sorrow, then suddenly someone appeared and said to the woman, "O servant of God, I see you so sad. And the woman asks for a prayer from that person after the woman tells her story, and the person gives her two choices, do you want your hands or your two children? Without a doubt the woman replied, I want my child back. And finally the person prayed for him and suddenly his child appeared, and his hands. Then the person said, "I am the messenger of God sent to you, both hands are two loaves and two children are your reward from Allah that you have helped the poor and your patience for the trials that befall you, know your husband does not divorce you then go home to your husband, he there at home and in fact your in-laws are dead, then the woman goes home. And all matters are fulfilled.

- Ianatuththalibin Page 209

Encouraging Bad Habits in Busy Moeslimah

Book Review: The Sun Shall Soon Shine by Adejoke Ajibade-Bakare

My Young Man Was Angry Himself

Encouraging Bad Habits in Busy Moeslimah

Tarekpukat - Every now and again I have a day when I just don't want to do anything. Usually because I am tired and my body is just telling my brain that enough is enough. My brain responds by getting grumpy and finding excuses to leave the dishes, or laundry or messy bathroom.

When I was a kid, we used to go out for day trips as a family. We would spend the day traipsing round, have a lunch packed by my mum early in the morning and then usually sleep through the long trip home. Then we would get home to land in front of the TV exhausted while mum started preparing dinner.

Now when we spend the day out as a family or spend a couple of hours in the park or shopping, we come home, unpack the car and put away our things. Everyone crashes and then I start sorting out lunch or dinner. But some days I feel annoyed. I am tired the same as everyone else, I want to rest, not prepare a meal in a rush so that we can make our next prayer on time or because everyone is hungry. Luckily my husband is a sweetie Masha Allah and if he can see it has been a long day and I am tired, he will suggest ordering takeaway.

It makes me think of my mum. No matter how tired she was she would get on with organizing what her family needed without complaint. The thing is, I don't think we mama's, sisters, daughters who take on all of the care for all of our loved ones should always do it uncomplainingly. Don't get me wrong, I love the way the Sahabah (RA), the companions of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (Shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam), provided us with an example of the way we should treat each other. They would put aside their needs to help others and they would forgo their rights to fullfil their responsibilities towards others. Muslimah's do this every day throughout their everyday lives. Mothers that let their family have the best parts of the meal or make do with leftovers, sisters that give up their study time to help younger siblings with their learning and daughters that are happy with whatever is given to them and never ask for anything Masha Allah.

But every now and again it is too much. We are tired, or we want something for ourselves. We can stay silent and serve in the way we always do, but feel resentful at the same time. We are not doing it out of a sense of duty and with happiness.

Sometimes we feel as if we have no choice: someone has to do it, or what will your family think? Often we think less of ourselves if we do less than everything for everyone.

Over time as I got older, I feel more empowered to make my own decisions and care less what people think. So rather than stay silent and feel resentful, every now and again, I will decide that I have done enough and I don't want to do any more for a while. I will welcome people to help themselves to leftovers from the fridge, I will get the older kids to help with the younger ones. I will leave the dishes in the sink, the piles of laundry and the mess in the bathroom. I will do exactly what I want and try my level best to ignore the little voice that says everyone will just think you are lazy.

So today, after a busy long Bank Holiday weekend and a morning out with the kids, I gave everyone left overs for lunch, prayed the midday prayer and then decided I would do nothing for a few hours. No housework, no organizing, no preparation for tomorrow, not even being sensible about my diet. I still felt a little bit of guilt at the back of my mind, but managed to keep it at bay long enough to relax at my moms for a few hours, and enjoy coffee and chocolate.

So I would encourage Muslimah's to make time to take care of themselves, be a bit irresponsible and say no to their duties for a little while when they need to. Or better still, see it as being responsible and sensible to give themselves enough of a rest and break, that they go back to caring for their loved ones without resentment.

Book Review: The Sun Shall Soon Shine by Adejoke Ajibade-Bakare

Tarekpukat -When I was approached by the author, Adejoke Ajibade-Bakare to review her book of poetry, I was a little nonplussed. I love books, especially straightforward and fast paced prose, but poetry is another matter. I am never sure if I am missing something, a metaphor of some kind or an allusion to some deeper truth that the poet is revealing. I rarely read poetry, although I do love the poetry of the Sufi Abdullah Shah Qadri, Maya Angelou, Grace Nichols and the great Pakistani poet-philosopher Muhammad Iqbal, but I did not feel qualified to comment. Then I came to the conclusion that I don't have to judge the structure or technique of the poems, but I can describe how it makes me feel and what it evokes for me.

The book opens with a poem about a poor mother whose children are hungry, one line stood out: "Necks extended, a plea to the steel pot", as the children look to the empty pot for food. This poem reminded me a little Maya Angelou's style of writing and set the tone of the book for me.

The book is split into five sections, along broad themes, the first "Womb Tales" is around the theme of women and motherhood. I enjoyed these lines from the poem Aye (meaning Life):

Up and about

The adogan

Cracking sparks of fire

As the ogi dances

To the rhythms set by blind hands

I really liked the use of Yoruba words, I love that at the bottom of each page, there is an explanation of each word that is not in English. The poem gives a glimpse into a busy morning on a normal day, the poem gives a sense of a life that is not easy ("battered feet", "blind hands"), but at the same time gives a feeling of energy and busyness ("Splish splosh into the amo", "Cracking sparks of fire", "busy hands").

The poems in this section talk of pregnancy, birth, motherhood, and loss alluding to miscarriage. There is a loving and benign father figure that appears through some of them. Often the tone is melancholy occasionally there is a glimmer of hope. In reflection of the private nature of these themes, the poems are often not clear, but allude to events in a subtle way.

In the section called Childhood Dreams, the tone changes to a more upbeat one. "My Emmanuel" stands out with its lovely description of a young man:

Strong arms

Fast legs

Broad smile

Grinning ear to ear

A handshake

To show gratitude

A hug

To show love

The sentences are short, clear and full of energy. The kind of poem I would love to dedicate to a beloved son.

The section called Woes of a Nation again feels different: with more wide-ranging themes such as patriotism (Woes of a Nation: "And is there for all to celebrate, The celebration of Nigeria Anew."), these poems have a lyrical, epic feel. Some of the poems are inspired by national tragedies such as a plane crash or the kidnapping of young boys and girls by Boko Haram, making them feel quite poignant. Others mention the land and earth, war and poverty:

A scenery of fear, poverty and destruction

Earth shattering sounds

Hitting hard, sinking deep

Like hot rocks

Splashing blood

The last lines (from the poem "Aleppo") make a powerful impression and invoke strong images. Many others, remind us that we should not lose hope in Allah SWT and that tomorrow is a new day full of hope. My favorite poem in this section was Arise Naija, for the way it ends with a call to the people to rise and claim their land.

The poems in the part called Soul Talk are about self-reflection and self-love. They are spiritual in nature and touch on the relationship with Allah SWT, many of them try to inspire and motivate us to use out limited time well. Some of them spoke more deeply to me than others, I suspect this will be largely a result of where the reader is in their own journey and what resonates.

The last section, Life's Palaver, speaks of how we get caught up in everyday troubles, of work and missed opportunity:

Sooner I should I have come

Much sooner, I should have come

The fish waits not for the fisherman

The fisherman that is yet to come

(From the Fisherman)

Some of the poems describe the hustle and bustle of every day life (The Alms Seeker, Far Gosford Street, the Street that Never Sleeps), with descriptions of noisy traffic and the smell of food from restaurants, most often the narrator watching it all go by. A number of the poems in this section are about children and childhood (Golden Child, The Prince and the Pauper, Lost Time Not Found). These touch on the way children are affected by poverty or parents that are too busy for them.

I had my reservations, but I came to enjoy reading the poetry in the concise and accessible book, I enjoyed getting a flavour of Nigerian life and I was moved by the tributes to the people of the country who have been beset by tragedy.

My Young Man Was Angry Himself

TAREKPUKAT - Little Man was long the middle child in my home, until the youngest two babies came along after quite a gap. Sandwiched between a confident and opinionated big sister and a charming and noisy younger brother, he displays some of the characteristics of the middle child: empathetic towards others, good at negotiation, humble and sometimes a little shy.

Of all my kids he is the one that is quick to help me and loves to please people. Recently though I have seen some changes in him. More than a few times he has gotten really angry and walked off mid-conversation. A few things seem to have gotten broken.

I now have a spindle in the banister which has been snapped and has left a space in the perfectly good, strong hand rail we have had for the last thirteen years. The children reliably inform me it snapped and fell out itself while they were downstairs. I have a set of mortar and pestle bowls, one for mashing things and one for grinding. Little Man got annoyed with me and worked the grinding stone too hard in the bowl and broke it. Recently I found one of the wooden spoons my mum gave me and that I use for cooking everything, cracked in half across the top.

I love how easy it is to catch my kids out. Little Lady rarely lies and squirms like crazy. Gorgeous cannot look me in the eye when he is trying to hide something, so I simply have to look him in the eye and ask him the question: Did you break it?/do it?/throw your food in the bin? Now that he knows I can tell and that he will get away with what he did if owns up, he will happily tell me what he did. So by default, I can catch Little Man out every time he does something, no matter how careful or smart he is.

I can't bring myself to get angry with my kids for damaging things, so I have been watching this slightly Jekyll and Hyde-is behavior with bemusement. Then it dawned on me: the sudden anger, the taking slight over little things and running off in a huff, we are approaching signs of our second expedition into teenager-land. I was terrified that my bossy, strong Little Lady would be an impossible teenager, but at 13 she seems to have gone through teenage and emerged as a fairly reasonable mini adult (although her occasional moody-face gives her away).

In contrast my mild-mannered kind son is showing signs of turning into a mini Hulk as he approaches teenage. I am trying to learn how to manage our interactions so that I don't provoke him. At the same time I am being very clear that I deserve to be spoken to in a respectful way. I get the feeling that this will be a long learning curve for us. He can still be quit curt, I still manage to put my foot in it and say the wrong thing or get annoyed at him and tell him to watch how is speaking to me. Or I will pull him up on something he says and he will back-track and say it was not aimed at me but at someone else. He will go off in one direction, I might yell after him or feel guilty.

I am going to hold an image of him in my mind. When I was on maternity leave expecting Gorgeous, Little Man was two years old. We spent a few weeks at home together with just the two of us while Little Lady was at nursery. He had a very cheeky smile and he loved climbing up everything. He would always hover nearby me and whenever I turned my full attention on him, he would suddenly get very shy and stop making eye contact. Every now and again, when he gets praise, I still see this.

Then there are the good things I see every day, every time I come home with my shopping, he takes the bags from my hands at the door and takes them into the kitchen. When we are out and Darling gets tired of walking, he will carry her all the way home on his shoulders. He will always offer to help me with housework when I need it and unlike Gorgeous or Little Lady never seems embarrassed of his mum.

I will keep all of his best attributes at the fore of my mind and when he gets angry or makes me angry, I will draw on those memories and positive attributes to remind myself he is still the same lovely boy and that the changes in him are part of his struggle in transitioning through teenage from a cheeky little kid to Insha Allah a kind, good young man.

Enjoying Prostration

Tarekpukat - Prostration is one of the pillars in the prayer.

That means our prayers will not be valid if without kneeling. Prostration is not just a mere ritual prayers. Behind the command prostration, it turns out God save the various benefits and wisdom in it.

Even prostration be the closest position between a servant to his Lord.

"The shortest distance of a servant to his Lord is when the servant was prostrate. Then, multiply prayer during prostration. "(Muslim, from Abu Hurairah friend)

In addition to being a closest position of a servant and his Lord, prostrate has tremendous benefits. Dr Fidelma O 'Leary example, Phd (Neuroscience) from St. Edward's University, as neurological (neurologist), Ireland's bloody woman notices that certain neurons in the human brain, which is only occasionally entered the blood.

When blood is not entered at all, it will cause serious harm to human health. That's needed to enter a routine activity of blood to the nerves that. And it was a routine activity of prostration in Muslim prayer.

This was reinforced by statements Prof Hembing, who found the heart, is only able to supply 20% of the blood into the human brain. To meet the need of blood to the brain, then humans need routine prostration.

After knowing the benefits and wisdom of the prostration, should we not hurry in lifting our heads when prostration. Enjoy your method of supplication. Enjoy the moments in which you are so close to your Lord.

Prayers The recommended When Disaster Comes

Tarekpukat - Musing is a test of God to His slaves through an instance that is not liked yet willing slave versus God's choice due to the fact that they think that just what God offers us is best for them.

Despite that God provide the disaster, naturally as the faithful make sure to just what has actually been educated by the Prophet everybody to be individual versus the disasters that are falling upon. Right here's a little evaluation of the advised petitions for those that were stricken by the hadith of the Prophet.

It is suggested for somebody that is overwritten catastrophe, disaster on himself, family members or residential or commercial property although disaster light to increase read:

إنا لله وإنا إليه راجعون أللهم أجرني في مصيبتي واخلف علي خيرا منها

Definition: "Undoubtedly, we come from Allah, as well as undoubtedly to Him we return. O Allah, provide reward (perseverance) to me on the disasters that are befalling me and also replace compassion to me compared to this disaster".

Due to the fact that God assured it to any individual that wishes to review the petitions when catastrophe coming, that grace as well as empathy constantly dedicated to them and also certainly they are amongst those that are directed. And also due to the hadith told by Imam Muslim use words claiming that any person that checks out the petition that God will certainly provide reward and also change them with compassion.

Ibn Khubair discovered to this individuals (the Ummah of Muhammad) was provided something when something you are never ever given to the previous "Innalillahi wa Inna Ilaihi raji'un". When the petition was ever before provided to individuals prior to, without a doubt the Prophet Ya' qub United States would certainly talk and also he would certainly not state:

يآسفى على يوسف

" Sadly, my pain with Yusuf". (Qur' an 12: 84).

May God constantly make us amongst those that hold your horses in slim situations as well as right into the happy individuals in an enjoyable as well as joy. amin.

Recommendation: I' anah al Thalibin Juz 2, page 147.

Al-Qur'an Reveals The lights in the sky, Proven Right

Tarekpukat - One knowledgeable of the Quran discusses the lights overhead. Allah claims, "And also We embellished the reduced paradise with the celebrities are great and also we preserve it along with feasible. Such stipulations are the Mighty, the recognizing, "(QS. Fushilat: 12).

The elegance of this globe, furnished with ceiling accessories that enhance the elegance of the planet. Whatever remains in the paradises produced an extremely cool therefore lovely. Particularly when the night came close to, the skies appeared to radiance. The celebrities existing lit up the globe.

Researchers state that it resembles "lights" flashlight (Flashlights) to expose the method to us as well as enables us to see a cloud of smoke in deep space. If there were not this light after that we will certainly have the ability to find out a great deal concerning the keys of deep space. As a result researchers validate that one of the most suitable name for the most far-off celebrity is Flashlights (lights).

Possibly, all over us there are those that question the reality of the Qur'an. Yet, you understand, that it ends up that paragraph to be real?

It held true, just what was claimed by God via His word. Where is the reality that Allah disclosed in advance of Western researchers with names (lights). The Qur'an has actually stated it considering that fourteen centuries back and also confirmed to be a wonder of the Qur'an this marvelous!

In this photo launched by the United States area company NASA we could see a brilliant celebrity. Starlight could pass through smoke "planetary" around.

Whatever remains in the paradises, God has actually been informing us. Yes, God be talking of it to the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ as receivers of His discovery. After that, we could currently review as well as figure out via the knowledgeables of the Koran that has actually been taped.

Denouncing the Qur'an? It was part of the Signs of the End Times

Tarekpukat - Lately, the Islamic world, including Indonesia entered a period of increasingly gloomy and slumps were outstanding, especially in the practice of religious teachings. Muslims are increasingly distant from the goodness and glory.

The following hadith of the Prophet Muhammad sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam about the conditions of the end-time. Perhaps it can be a lesson for us.

Of companions Abu Musa al-Ash'ari, radhiyallaahu 'anhu; Prophet Muhammad Sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:

"لاَ تَقُومُ السَّاعَةُ حَتَّى يُجْعَلَ كِتَابُ اللهِ عَارًا، وَيَكُونَ اْلإِسْلاَمُ غَرِيبًا، وَيَبْدُوَ السِّمَنُ مِنَ النَّاسِ، وَحَتَّى يَنْقُصَ الْعِلْمُ، وَيَهْرَمَ الزَّمَانُ، وَيَنْقُصَ عُمْرُ الْبَشَرِ، وَتَنْقُصَ السُّنُونَ وَالثَّمَرَاتُ، وَيُؤْتَمَنَ التُّهَمَاءُ، وَيُصَدَّقَ الْكَاذِبُ، وَيُكَذَّبَ الصَّادِقُ، وَيَكْثُرَ الْهَرَجُ، الْقَتْلُ الْقَتْلُ، وَحَتَّى تُبْنَى الْغُرَفُ فَتَطَاوَلَ، وَحَتَّى تَحْزَنَ ذَوَاتُ اْلأَطْفَالِ، وَتَفْرَحَ الْعَواقِرُ، وَيَظْهَرَ الْبَغْيُ وَالْحَسَدُ وَالشُّحُّ، وَيَغِيضَ الْعِلْمُ غَيْضًا، وَيَفِيضَ الْجَهْلُ فَيْضًا، وَيَكُونَ الْوَلَدُ غَيْظًا، وَالشِّتَاءُ قَيْظًا، وَحَتَّى يُجْهَرَ بِالْفَحْشَاءِ، وَتَزُولَ اْلأَرْضُ زَوَالاً"

".Not going to happen Judgment that the Book of Allah is considered impeccable, the days of being adjacent, the years of kindness and fruits is reduced, the suspect given the trust, the trust is suspected, people who lie justified, honest man considered to be a lie, murder occur , rooms are built with competing in altitude, women who have children become sad, the woman who was barren be happy, evil, slander and miserly been strong, science knowledge really be receding, ignorance really overflow, child hurt (his parents), out of season rains occur, vile deed done openly and truly rocked the earth".

The above hadith narrated by Ibn Abi al-Dunya in al-'Uqubat [340], al-Thabarani, Abu Nasr al-Sijzi and Ibn'Asakir. See al-Haitsami, Majma 'al-Zawaid [12437], and al-Barzanji, al-Isya'ah li-Asyrath al-Hour, p 151. This hadith Sanad jayyid.

In the above hadith, there are some things in the spotlight as part of the sign of the approaching doomsday. The signs are :

1) The Qur'an is considered blemish. The presumption reproach against the Quran and religious knowledge that comes from The Qur'an, has been carried out by Muslims. If pagans were denounced, has occurred since the early days of Islam. But the denunciation of the Qur'an is actually coming from the Muslims themselves.
Even since the new order, education schools that teach only the Koran and various religious disciplines derived from the Qur'an, is not considered as an education institution authorized by the state. Theologician graduates of the schools are not considered knowledgeable people.

2) Age becomes contiguous. Time sooner has several meanings. Some scholars interpret, the loss of the blessing of time owned by humans, because of their busy lives are more focused on worldly affairs. Some scholars interpret the shortening of the time with the presence of means of transport such as cars and airplanes that accelerate one's journey.

3) Years kindness and fruits to be reduced. In some areas in Indonesia, including in the area we live, agricultural production and the fruit is decreasing since some time later.

4) A person who is accused of doing evil by the trust. It is indeed a reality everywhere and does not need to be explained. Even people who proved to evil, the better his career.

5) People who can be trusted suspected. It is already known and widespread.

6) a person who lies justified.

7) An honest person is considered a lie.

8) The killing of a lot going on. Of numbers 5 to 8 is really happening in the present. How innocent people killed and sacrificed. Even in the Islamic world, almost every day we read news of bombings and attacks on Muslim countries.

9) The rooms are built with competing in altitude. This is evidenced by the emergence of skyscraper buildings in the form of hospitality and apartments. It is common knowledge that the hotel's rooms is a safe place for misconduct and insult.

10) Women who have children become sad, because they have been hurt by their children. On the other hand, many women do not want to bear children, with many moral crime among young people, so there is little occurrence of abortion of children and the use of contraceptives to reject a pregnancy.

11) The woman who was barren be happy. Many women who want not pregnant, because in addition to career reasons, as well as intercourse outside of marriage.

12) Crime, slander and miserly has emerged.

13) Science knowledge actually be receding. That is the science of religion is losing its appeal. So today, it is very difficult to find people who really understand the science of religion.

14) Ignorance is actually overflowing. Stupidity really overflowing in the middle of the community. Even more sad, mostly Muslims, glad to show you fools to be guest speakers and preachers of religious events, on television.

Especially from the artists and movie stars who turn around into dai. It is a great misfortune for Muslims. Some time ago, al-Marhum Shaykh Muhammad al-Ghazali, an Egyptian cleric, advised map college graduates who studied general science such as medicine, technology and so forth in order not switched professions to become propagators.

Because missionary work can only be done by people who are experts in theology. If people who are not theologians, took care of religious knowledge, then obviously, very harmful to Muslims.

15) Children hurt (his parents).

16) The rain occurs out of season. Rainfall in the off-season, causing crops and fruit products slumped and less good.

17) vile deeds done openly. Not a few cases of humiliating and despicable acts performed rollicking and recorded by their comrades.

18) The Earth really rocked, with the number of earthquake and landslide. Allah knows best.

May be useful for us, amen.

Mother ingeniously Imam Shafi'i

Tarekpukat - Once Fatima bint Ubaidullah RA, Mother of Imam Shafi'i RA., Was asked by a judge to be a witness in court. He had invited a friend to come testify. On arrival at the court, the judge said, "That may testify only you, your friend should not be!"

The mother of Imam Shafi'i RA. then objected, "You can not say that! Allah says, "... If there is no (witness) two men then (be) a man and two women among the people you love from witnesses (there is) so that when one forgot it that the other can remind ... "(QS. Al-Baqarah [2]: 282).

The judge was silent and acknowledge the intelligence of Shafi's mother. No wonder if his intelligence to his son's famous downhill extraordinary intelligent and broad knowledge that is difficult equaled by later generations.

Back when Fatimah containing baby Shafi, her husband, Idris RA., Died. After Ash-Shafi'i was born, the bundalah which feeds it with affection. At the age of two, small Shafi brought his mother to Makkah in order to stay with the senasab Bani Muttalib with the Prophet Muhammad.

He always encourages his son to love science. Thanks to the enthusiasm that is transmitted from mother, Shafi can memorize the Qur'an at the age of seven. Three years later, he had memorized the book Al-Muwatta 'of Imam Malik RA.

"He is like the sun to the earth and the health of the body. Is there anything that can rival them? "Thus said Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal RA. sharpness and breadth of knowledge about Imam Shafi'i RA

Sleep excess, he's Impact

tarekpukat - Rest is just one of the fundamental human requirements. After doing numerous tasks throughout the day, individuals should rest within a sensible time during the night to relax the body as well as mind. If any individual does not have rest, after that it will certainly have an influence on adjustments in the rest cycle and also LOSS emphasis for time likewise various other illness.

However did you understand that was oversleep additionally poor for one's health and wellness?

The adhering to 7 damaging impacts of excess rest, to name a few:

1. Frustration

One outcome of that is typically really felt when an individual is resting a lot of the frustrations. This results from the natural chemicals in the mind interfered with as a result of lengthy hrs of rest, creating migraines.

2. Damaging mind

Absence or unwanted of rest caused mind aging 7 years earlier. On top of that, ladies aged 45 years and also over that have a couple of hrs rest greater than 9 hrs will certainly have 2 years a lot more mind aging swiftly. This will certainly make us challenging to approve as well as take in the info around.

3. Backache

Rest makes the body hing on the back as well as had a little motion. Stress that is also long will certainly result in persistent neck and back pain as well as extended that interrupt our day-to-day tasks.

4. Possibly cardiovascular disease

A research study disclosed that individuals that rested greater than 7 hrs each day, 2 times the possibility of creating heart problem compared to individuals with regular resting hrs. This is because of rest could boost the threat of absence of oxygen supply to ensure that blood circulation to the heart is disturbed.

5. Impacts Fertility

As females we need to beware if you're utilized to rest also long. The majority of rest could impact the menstruation, hormonal agents, and also rhythm scardian. This could bring about disturbance of fertility egg cells in the body.

6. Diabetic issues

Way too much rest could interrupt the body's metabolic system so interfered with insulin manufacturing as well as trigger blood glucose is not regulated. Unrestrained blood sugar level could be a significant trigger diabetes. Also individuals that rested greater than 9 hrs each day 50% greater threat of diabetic issues suffer.

7. Danger of Passing away Youthful

Rest past regular limitations in danger of passing away young. As well as a great deal of research study that analyzes this reality.

If you know with the benefits of resting practices, you must transform that routine from currently on. Due to the fact that the body is a required that we have to protect.

Super Moon Sign of the End of the World

Tarekpukat - We have seen what an unusual phenomenon occurred. Yes, the phenomenon is so interesting supermoon sympathy of many people. They deliberately take the time to be able to witness what the beauty of the moon. Whereas, in the past month more obvious than usual.

Months looks obvious that occur because of the position of the moon is so close to the earth. Thus, the radiant beauty of the moon can be seen with the naked eye. Many people are so happy with this phenomenon. They were quite impressed and feel the satisfaction that is unusual because it can directly view and record it.

But, it is different with those who believe. They would feel the sorrow. Why? Therefore, it is known that has been narrated 1400 years ago the phenomenon like this would happen. And something unusual this is one sign of the end times.

From Anas that the Prophet ﷺ said, "Indeed part of the nearby mark the Day of Judgment is that the moon is seen in the night as for two nights (- mean: larger than usual, Pen-), and many happen to sudden death, and a mosque used as a pass "(HR. Imam Adhdhiyaa 'Al Maqdisy in Al Alhadis Al Mukhtaaroh no: 2325, and according to Sheikh Abdul Maalik bin Dhuhaisy, sanadnya Hasan. Likewise dihasankan by Shaykh Nasir Al Albaany in Saheeh Jaami'ush Shoghiir no: 10841 and Genealogical Hadith Sahih no: 2292).

Also there is also a history of Anas bin Malik, he said that the Messenger ﷺ said, "Among the signs nearby Judgment Day is the new moon (Thabit) seen earlier until the new moon first night is said to be the new moon second night, the mosques are used as a passing and the number of cases of sudden death, "(HR. Imam Ath Thabrani no: 1132 and classed as saheeh by Shaykh Nasir Al Albani in Saheeh Al Jaami'ish Shoghiir no: 10841).

In the hadith is clearly said that this supermoon phenomenon could be one sign of the end times. So, this is a warning for us to immediately improve. Do not be put off repentance much less indifferent to the signs of God. Because, perhaps, other phenomena, such as the sun rose from the direction of the setting will make us regret. Given the time, we are already too late Taubat

Karamat and Waliyullah

Tarekpukat - Keramat derived from the Arabic "karuma-yakrumu- karamatan" means noble, generous and or generous. According to Islamic teachings karamat is an extraordinary event or something aberrant and unacceptable by human reason can only be perceived by faith. All of this is given to self-wali.

Wali derived from the Arabic "waliya- yah ', meaning that people very close or follow it indefinitely. Meaning Wali is a believer, pious, devout, obedient to God's command that obedience continuously, without punctuated by immoral acts.

People are entitled to master it (the trustees), only those who do right, but most of them do not know. (Al-Anfal, 34)

The Guardian by Yusuf bin Ismail An-Nabhani in his book "Jaami'u Karaamatil Aulia", in terms of language means close.

does it mean if someone close

God, due obedience, steadfastness and sincerity then God will be close to him with mercy, benevolence and His bounty, and granted him all the convenience. At that time there was a trust, the person was named mayor or God always protect it, so to him there should be no worries.

And Allah gave him many advantages which are not granted to His servants the others, in the form of extraordinary event or events that do not make sense or deviate from the habits and customs of man, as God provide miracles to the prophets and apostles.

"Remember, the true guardians of God was no fear come upon them, nor will they grieve. Namely those who believe, and they are always pious." (Yunus: 62-63).

In the Qur'an a lot of examples of this example is called such verse in surah Al-Kahf Allah recounts the major events and the magic that happens on seven young people living in a cave for more than 300 years, without eating and drinking, but he remained healthy. And many more others. All events of extraordinary events that are not reasonable and aberrant human being given to a person while he is not a prophet, this is called sacred.

Keep in mind, all cases that violate the human mind is not only sacred, but also magic as such but the difference is that there are obedience and disobedience in these people. Do not be the case because the ratio beyond man convicted sacred, remember, there's just sacred in Wali Allah, people close to God.

How Long Does A Female Patient and Hold To Unrelated to her husband?

Tarekpukat - Nowadays, we often hear in the print and electronic media cases in the household, even some of them have ended in the green table religious court, it can not be separated from their respective roles of husband and wife in a foster home, in one side of his wife sometimes forget their obligations and on the other hand he was always demanding their rights to the husband. Likewise, a husband, not infrequently he forgot his duty as a head of family and continue to assert their rights to his wife. Yet everything had been arranged by religion, the husband is obliged to provide maintenance to his wife, and in return, the wife must be obedient and submissive to her husband.

In this case, living in question is the need clothing, food and more, the husband is obliged to provide clothing, food and shelter to his wife, and the husband is not obliged to meet the needs of b1ologis wife, but the husband is required to maintain his wife from committing immoral, including to prevent it from doing adultery, thus indirectly, the affairs of the bed is a thing that must be considered by a husband.

But the extent where patience woman in this case, is permissible for the husband to not leave the inner living for one or two months? is it okay for husbands to leave it for a year? in this case, religion imposes limits the extent of permissible for the husband to not provide for his wife, the book of Al-Mahalli described is not justifiable for a husband to not provide a living mind of his wife in a period of more than four months, because four months is the limit of the patience of a woman in the case of these matters, it is based on a story companions of the Prophet, which is the story of Sayyidina Umar, Sayyidina Umar on a night walk in the town square medina, then he listened to a woman who recite the following:

Indeed, the night really was a long and some have passed, lonely lover who can not take a joke ria I have woken me.
For the sake of Allah ! If it were not for fearing punish the banks of these beds would really shake violently.
But the shame and fear of the Lord prevented me.
And I was worried it would interfere with my husband to achieve a high degree.

Then Sayyidina Umar approached him and said: "where did your husband go?" He replied: "he has long gone to war in Allah. Sayyidina Umar then go home and ask his daughter hafsah: "How long a woman can refrain from dealing with her husband?" Hafsah answered: "Four months, more than that he is his patience would run out or stay a little bit".

After this incident, Sayyidina Umar create policies that war time should not be more than four months, it is that women are not suffering from the loneliness of their beloved husbands touch.

Four months is the last limit or length restriction if the measure is the month, while weekly is four days. So that one of the lessons why only males are allowed polygamy to four is due to restrictions sense of patience of desire in women is four days so that if someone has four wives, then he will be able to meet the needs of a living mind his four wives each week without making them wait more than four day and were disappointed.

Reference: Mahalli juz 4 page 11

Just Want to take you home

Tarekpukat - Alif Mubarak one of the children in the village conglomerates. After high school parents Alif had planned him to lecture at UKN (University Kebangsaan Malaysia). Two days before departure Alif to Malaysia, he attended a seven-day one of his friend's father died. There Alif amazed at his age have been able to stand in front of the crowd, in the heart Alif said, "Will I be like him?". That question continues to haunt Alif to the point that she could not sleep that night.

The next day Alif expressed his intention to boarding school and cancel her studies UKN. But what happens both parents Alif surprised to hear requests Alif to the extent that the mother Alif said, "Lif, what mothers do not hear you correctly?, Alif tau dropout dayah have no future, about what to eat Alif later when the father and mother are gone?" , Alif was silent without a word, the tears kept rolling down her cheeks "Not what mother, Alif is already pleased with all the provisions of Allah. Alif beg the pleasure of mother and father, forgive Alif father, mother. Alif really thirsty science of religion ". Parents Alif just interrupt their long breath "Never mind, son, when you plan to dayah?". Alif was responding to a question of the mother "Tomorrow mother", "Do not speed elevators?" Said the mother. Alif replied "Even Alif was too late mother". But the mother did not understand the intent Alif "It's too late".

Right in October 2009 ushered Alif both parents to a boarding school, there Alif trying to reach the expectations that had been with him in some time ago. Gone Safinatun naja book, Matan At-Taqrib, Al-Bajuri, I'anatul Thalibin and Mahalli.

In 1437 H coincides with October 2015 Alif even already be in Mudi for 8 years. Poorer during the 8 Alif in boarding school, a day Alif rarely home.

At 09:30 suddenly the phone rang sign Alif incoming messages.
"Salamun 'Alaika Alif Mubarrak, longing we wait smoldering presence. Dad always mentioned your name Alif. Go home, even for a moment we were waiting for your presence in the hospital ". sister Zaifa

He snapped without thinking he was leaving home with his beloved motorcycle. In the three-hour journey he came to the hospital after a long time he had never met mainly with relatives.

Alif: Assalamualaikum mother
Mother: Wa'alaikum greeting Alif (mother hugged Alif that has long been missing from him).

Alif: Mother, Who does it hurt? Father where the mother?
Mother: Father comma lif, now in the ICU
Alif: Ya Allah (Alif cry at once it burst atmosphere was quiet, now changed with tears). Mother let Alif to pray.

Mother: Yes, son.
After praying dhuhur, Alif pray to God. "O God, my soul is within your grasp, forgive all my sins, accept all supplications, give healing to my father, O God, give the opportunity for her child slave became a father while there and when the father shut eye".

Move the fingers of his father, a miracle occurred. It is remarkable in the children's prayer thank God without intermediaries. Then my father moved to the VIP room for treatment, where Ali flah who became a friend's father, accompanied father to the bathroom, to guide her ablutions father to believing prayer. Alif always chanting the holy Qur'an verse finishes from his prayer. At that time read Ar-Rahman Alif.

Suddenly….
Dad: ... Alif Alif ... A voice, the father called Alif, Alif lap just to the father and the father seems to have been on the verge of death's door.

Dad: Alif ... Dad would go, son, father banga have a son like you. Thank you, dear. Alif shed tears, unable to Alif weir. Alif: Dad .. Say syahadah. "Asyhaduanla ilahaillah, waasyha du anna Muhammadur Rasulullah, asyhaduanla ilahaillah, waasyha du anna Muhammadur Rasulullah".

Dad: "Asyhaduanla ilahaillah, waasyha du anna Muhammadur Rasulullah".

Alif superbly father died and seven days ended. How happy Alif because he is carrying out fard ain parents. On a night longing Alif Allah. "O God thou hast perfected as a child slave for parents servants, thanks to the presence of God, forgive the sins of my parents, unlawful hellfire to them, let me bear all they have done. I apologize to you, let them pass through thy reckoning later quickly to get to heaven your eternal ".

"Amen" It sounds Alif invite the whole family expert, suddenly the mother by the shoulders Alif.
Mother: Alif sorry dear mother. Alif was actually the one who got the future, especially before God.

Recently prostration A Bride

Tarekpukat - This is a story of a bride's last prostration. This story happened in Abha, capital of Asir province of Saudi Arabia. A story that is worth considering and internalized in order to add to the faith.

"After conducting evening prayers he decorated, using a beautiful white wedding dress, preparing for a wedding.

Then he heard the call Isha, and he realized that his ablution has been canceled.

She said to her mother: "Mom, I want to perform ablutions and evening prayers."

Her mother was surprised: "Are you crazy?
Guests have been waiting to see you,
what about your make-up?
Everything will be washed by water.

"Then her mother added:" I am your mother, and the mother told them not to pray now!
By Allah, if you perform ablutions now, she will be angry with you "

His son replied: "By Allah, I will not go out of this room, to my prayer.

Mother, mothers should know "that there is no obedience to a creature in disobedience to the Creator" !!

His mother said: "What will our guests about you, when you perform in your wedding without make-up ??
You will not look pretty in their eyes !, and they will make fun of you!

His son said with a smile: "Would you be afraid because I will not look beautiful in the eyes of the creature ?.
What about the Creator? What I fear is that if the cause loss of prayers, I will not look pretty in the eyes of Him (Allah) ".

Then he perform ablutions, and the whole make-up washed. But he did not find a problem with it.
Then he began his prayer. And when he prostrated, he did not realize it, that it would be his last prostration.

The bride was died in a beautiful way, prostrate before her Creator.
Yes, he died in a state of prostration. What a fabulous end to a Muslim firm to comply with his Lord!

Many people were touched listening to this story. He has made God and obedience to Him as Top Priority.

By : Sheikh Abdul Mohsen Al Ahmad.

Yourself In Data

Tarekpukat - The present era is changing everything. The world today is like a small village, what happened, anytime, anywhere can affect anyone. When the first to know an update takes several days or hours, now takes only a few minutes to access or permeates every data. Be we are now a generation that is silent because the world is already too (at) within us.

The generation that is not disturbed when dealing with a monitor or keypad on the latest gadgets. Human beings are very practical, even hyper-pragmatic, with a slim but solid bag contents and meaning: no world in his pocket, in a form that is no larger than a cigarette pack. data access, word, and meaning only with a pinch on the screen box. With the tip of his index we scan the universe in the grasp of the speed of visual and cognitive incredible, that's the picture now. We now can not run from this fact but the question is whether we are in the data? Or vice versa, the data resides within us?

Actually, with such rapid advancement of information technology era or affords a great opportunity for us to do and scan all the things that are useful for many people. If you want to talk to be honest we're still on the runway, everyone is now vying to make the current.

In various media in accordance with their interests, we just still a whisper peeper over mistakes made them. It takes hard work and a myriad of spirit to follow the flow of information now in favor, we should be the main supplier of data in all lines according to capacity, so not just get caught up in the flow but go with the flow with the style and tone of each.

In my opinion an atmosphere such as this, we as educated people, who have a great moral responsibility, whether for religion, or nation, should bring in the data flow through write, write whatever course in accordance with the capacity. Our data is too low, or even very thin to consume a lot of people. Let Disarm yourself by writing

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