Tarekpukat - In the present life, the obligation for a parent of a child has been largely forgotten. It was sad to see in every newspaper and various media always abuse and torture for parents going on around us. One cause further lack of respect of a child against the person who gave birth to her is because of the education he received was not balanced by the evil influence that every day in the life.Therefore, the lesson of the obligations of a child against the parents need to be encouraged again, so as not to be taboo in the future. The Rights of Children Against Parents
Whether any man, surely the most meritorious against him are his parents. Services parents will never be able to pay nothing, or nothing can equal it for someone. These several parts:
1. Have childbirth
How great we are, or how eloquently we are today, it all would not exist if they did not bore us. They have been the cause of our birth into this world. Without them, we are only mortal without form.
Maybe we deny it by saying, "I never told them gave birth to me, to what I have to serve them." Yes, if you'd like of course they will say, "If we know you to be a bitch like this, who's willing to bring you. Already since our tangible piece of meat you throw into the ditch". But the average parent would not say like this. Their affection is too big to be defeated cheap emotion. If their children are evil, they can do just shut up and cry. Quite often they even blame themselves incompetent in educating.
When we are virtuous people like human beings, we will not forget the greatest merit of this. Instead we will make it as the main reason to serve and fulfill their rights. Especially mothers, sick and tired tired in childbirth and contains incalculable. For men do not even dare to imagine. How could we forget their toil this?
If we look at the mother, how during the nine months was pregnant with difficulty, even when giving birth, a mother must wrestle with death, as if the right foot in the hereafter and the left foot in the world, it was all done for the sake of a beloved child who later was expected to be able to be their greatest source of happiness.
2. Provide a living
Dad, who can deny the services to a child. How many have spent their wealth to us, if we count from birth to adulthood may be enough to buy a car. Immeasurably how much sweat that have been issued, incalculable how much pain he's going through to raise us. A difficult thing we know before we actually have children of their own.
Have you ever seen a frail old man still works? Yes, wherever we
can find it, because almost all parents can not be careless while their children starve, or not enough clothes. He forgot age getting late, the rules when he was aged 60 years and over, the task is no longer holding a hoe, or fouled him in the fields. He was supposed to sit at home, and reproduce remembrance practice. Her son had been the whip for him to go on and continue working.
Therefore,
it is appropriate that a child is loved them and obey their wishes,
except in the unlawful and religiously forbidden. Already we hear many stories of how the trouble disobeying parents, how the history of a boy who disobeys his parents. It's just such stories have begun away from the ears of children now
so that what was once the most feared gradually faded swallowed an
incessant bustle.
Remember, that no matter how successful we are, if the parents are not pleased with, so God is not pleased with her. Allah's approval on the pleasure of the parents. If God is not pleased with us, for this is our life? For what the treasure wallowing surrounds us?
Allah. speak;
وقضى ربك ألا تعبدوا إلا إياه وبالوالدين إحسانا إما يبلغن عندك الكبر أحدهما أو كلاهما فلا تقل لهما أف ولا تنهرهما وقل لهما قولا كريما
Meaning: And thy Lord ordered you not worship except Him, and be ye kind to mother your father with the best - well, if one among the two or both have aged in the maintenance of you, then do not once - once you say to the two words "ah "and do not yell at them and say to those noble words. [Q.S al-Isra 23].
Prophet Muhammad said: "Heaven under your mother's feet" In another hadith says: "Allah's approval is in the pleasure of the parents, and the wrath of God is in the wrath of the parents".
Among other things to be aware of a child is not applicable manners in front of them. No matter how we are annoyed with them, we should not take it. Because if their hearts are hurt, we can be damned.
Hopefully the rights and duties of children towards their parents can benefit and become an afterthought for us how far we are happy they are.
Tarekpukat - Said some scholars that even though the earth and the sky were created by Allah SWT on Sunday, then the wisdom for people who want to build a house or other building to be able to build on that day.
